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Originally Posted by TonyToneTone  All women ARE master PUAs. |
Then, why are there dating coaches who have female clients?
From what I heard on the Pickup Podcast, the female clients need to learn a whole different set of things than male clients do. They may not be very approachable, for one thing. Just being pretty is not enough, if she looks like she doesn't want to talk to anybody, nobody will talk to her.
Women who like other women seem to have their own challenges. How do you figure out if the other woman is interested? How do you show interest without being too aggressive? I've heard from several women that other women are confusing. Men would agree with that!
And yeah, a woman probably could go to any bar and find someone for sex in 15 minutes, but how many women want to? What about finding a decent boyfriend in a bar? That's a lot more difficult. Skip the bars, go to sci-fi conventions. Lots of single guys there!
I think there's a lot to learn from the PUAs no matter what your gender and orientation are. Ultimately, how to deal with other people is worth learning, no matter who you are and no matter what the situation.