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Originally Posted by seeker5  The truth though, is for me, I want to be able to know (believe with full certainty) that someones believes the worst thing possible about me, and yet I'd still be completely ok and not bothered by it. |
But you can't know. At best you could theorize. Whatever beliefs you know about are yours, even if you attribute them to others, right? Therefore, the trick is not to not care what others think about you, but to not care what
you think about you.
What anybody else does or says is completely irrelevant; it is what you choose to believe about what they do or say that matters. If all beliefs known to you are your beliefs, then it is your own beliefs that you must be able to disregard. You must be able to disregard your own judgmentalism. Once you are free of judgment, then you will be free of the suffering that it comes with. That is the only way to get what you say you want. Give up judgment, and there will be nobody left to judge you.