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Originally Posted by David21  I'm guessing she must have just had too much to drink as when I next saw her in uni, she was somewhat distant and avoidant, almost like nothing had happened. |
She was distant because she felt rejected. She showed her interest in you, and you didn't follow up.
Women are much more subtle in showing their interest than men, so if you think she is interested, she probably is. Any species has a mating ritual and humans are no different. Our species' courting ritual (biologically hardwired) requires the man to take the lead, i.e. to escalate the whole way. Whether you like it or not, that's the way it is. If the woman takes the initiative, it is usually only in the very beginning by inviting the man (think eye contact etc). After that she hopes that the man takes it from there (to be specific: ask her for the first date, ask her to his/her house, first kiss, first sex, first time saying "I love you", etc)