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Originally Posted by bluedragon  Learn from the advice on building confidence that Steve and many PUA teach, and work slowly towards becoming more habituated to talking to people. Talk to everybody, starting with those people who do not present a challenge to you. Many instructors in the PUA community felt clueless one or 2 years before they became instructors. It took them only that much to become really good. It's not a problem how to overcome shyness. It only a matter of time. |
This is very true. When my friends and I first started out (maybe over 10 years ago), we would say things like "No one can leave here until every guy talks to at least ten women" or "We can't go home until everyone has 3 numbers" or something like that. Make it fun.