Hey SSI,
Sounds like you having been doing great (growing a lot). You can have unconditional love for everyone but not be in love with someone. And you can be in love with someone but not have unconditional love for them.
Most people have conditional love for those that they are in love with. That's not unconditional love, it's simply neediness and attachment. "I love you because you are this person and if you change I won't love you quite as much anymore".
It' important to learn to unconditionally love the one you are with because if you don't that feeling you have will go away in time.
Make sure that you don't confuse unconditional love with gifts or compliments. Those things are nice but they aren't unconditional love. Forgiveness, understanding and compassion for another person is unconditional love.
I'm taking a shot in the dark but I think you will find someone that you are in love with when you find someone who is on the same frequency as you are. When you meet someone who is on the same self development path that you are you will feel extreme amounts of love (giving and receiving).
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