I don't expect guys to pay for me when we go out. I almost always offer to pay or split. I think two people should give equally in all aspects of a relationship, or at least as equally as they can. It would be a bit different if he was very wealthy and wanted to go to expensive restaurants that you couldn't afford...
That being said, the problem I do see is that he seems not to be upfront with you about how he feels. The whole making excuses when it comes time to pay would ring a bell for me. I wouldn't like that and that, to me, would be a much bigger issue than the money itself.
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