eh..sorry magi13 the whole deal of 'winning over 'jus seems so..@$%^&archaic
id have preferred to say jus as you need to win em over they DO TOO!
come onnnnn shes not obliged to 1.win anyone over 2 .not rock the boat 3.keep everyone happy 4.make up for her husbands lack of communication with his parents 5.putem on a pedestal jus cos they are parents 6. twist n turn events so she can control their opinion to be a good one.
but thats jus me talkin. if she feels so then thats what she will be doin i guess.
id just plain say ditch the good girl tag.and be real.authentic.n dont be afraid if the boat rocks.
how do you mean so?
imho it seems like a sentence rather than a choice.something which 'binds' you rather than giving you space and freedom to be who you are.self denial is an option here?