I don't agree that the guy should pay for the majority of dates. I would expect to pay roughly half. That might mean going halves on a date, or pay for half the dates each.
That said, dates don't have to be expensive. Cooking each other a nice meal, going to the cinema, or out for a couple of drinks. It doesn't need to break the bank.
You might want to look at where your expectations come from that a guy should pay the majority of the time? Are those expectations serving you right now? Are there other more helpful thoughts that make you feel good about yourself, your bf and your relationship?
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