If you make this about him and not her, you lose any benefit the experience could give her.
ATC, the bf is a reflection of you, a perfect mirror in the moment. He's not broken, he's just showing you something you want to get clear on about yourself.
Changing him is like drawing a smile on a mirror with lipstick. It's not a real change, cuz who is being reflected in that mirror? You! You need to see what is up for you in this situation and change yourself if you choose to. That is the only way to change what's in the mirror... you change yourself.
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