I think you should try becoming more and more open and available for being in a relationship - talking to more girls, taking care of yourself, always being prepared to go out, always knowing your schedule so you know when you can squeeze a date in, listen to podcasts about dating and generally make this chapter an important part of your life. You could also become friends with a few girls, as this will help you become more comfortable with a lot of aspects. You can experience a lot of closeness even with a girl friend, not only a "girlfriend". Slowly but steadily work towards what you really want.
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