Have you made your expectations to him clear? Have either of you talked about how you'll handle splitting the cheque? Dija tell him that you wanna do something special for V-day and want him to organize it?
As a guy, if a girl expected me to pay for the majority of the dates, I would probably dump her. For one, if I'm paying for her, then I'm doing it as a gift and out of my genorisity, not so that she can get free meals. If she doesn't recognize it as generosity and instead sees it as her right, we've got a problem. Different people handle things differently, so the point is to talk about these things.
The first thing to do, though, is talk to him and ask him waht his expectations are. You can tell him what your expectations are and then discuss things. It's not just you in the relationship.
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