[JeffT]

Colm already said most of what I was thinking but I will say whats on my mind anyway...

Relationships are complex things to describe with words, but it sounds like he wanted you to be his f***buddy. And it sounds like you liked him, and you got into a sexual relationship with him hoping that it would turn into more, and that he would start to feel the same way about you that you feel about him.

Now that you have been in that type of relationship with him he is going to see you as a f***buddy in any relationship that you try to build with him. The only thing that can change the way he see's you right now will be alot of time apart. I think you are doing the right thing by getting yourself out of that relationship. If you are getting out hoping that it will finally make him take you seriously, unfortunately, it's probably not going to happen. I think you should move on to a guy that can give you what you need in a relationship.

As far as the Myspace thing, don't let him control your emotions with his friends list. Your friends are closer to the situation then anyone on this forum. I would listen to their advice and play it cool.