ey Scott
I’m gonna be blunt with you. You don't understand women. You don’t know how to love a woman
Your woman needs a man she can express unconditionally to, no matter the emotion. Be it Love, fear, compassion, anger. But let me guess she expresses fear, and anger to you and you get verbally abusive. She knows she can’t express herself to you unconditionally so she goes to the 'drink' to numb herself.
When a feminine energy gets angry she is just testing your strength as a man and the strength of your navigation skills. The feminine emotion of anger is almost always a test of love.
It goes back to when we were cave men and women Scott. Cave men would scare away hungry lion, tigers and bears and Cave women would nurture the children. Now the Cave woman needed to know that her cave man would not leave her, if he did leave her she would be left to the lion, tigers and bears. She needed to know that he would always be there to scare away the lion, tigers and bears. So guess what she did. She tested his love for her by trying to tear him down with her words and if he stood there loving her after her abuse she knew she would not leave her.
I know this is a massive generalisation, but it gets the point across that the feminine energy grows and flows with unconditional express.
Now how does a masculine energy love the feminine energy?
By knowing his purpose in life, knowing his direction in left, and having unshakable love for his woman. Your Purpose has to be independent of your woman, you can not be dependant on her love, let me explain. This would mean she is supporting you with her love and this would mean she can not express herself unconditional without you getting hurt. And remember the feminine energy grows and flows with unconditional expression.
Your Purpose needs to be independent of your woman.
It is of the utmost importance you know your purpose too. Know where you are, where you want to be and how you’re gonna get there.
I can imagine she is so tense because she can’t express herself unconditionally to you because you get verbally abusive.
Get her Scott and tell her ‘I want you to express the truth me’, Let her go crazy on you, let express herself unconditionally, she will blame you, hate you, want to kill you, but remember what she says is just flow, it’s not real, it’s a test of love, love her through it with your strength, love her through her storm, let it wash over you. After the storm she will love you forever only to test you again. So laugh when she’s about to test your love
Scott that’s my advice, take it, leave it, it’s your choice.
That’s my 2 cents
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