Starfish,
Whatever happens, just realize that you are a wonderful being. These kind of situations may seem like rejection and humiliation, but I found a new way of thinking that turns even the worst situation into something positive.
For example, if I get rejected by a girl, then I can say I'm the worst ladies man ever! For some reason, that is a really empowering thought for me. I always thought I was SUPPOSED to be good with women. But then it occurred to me maybe I just PLAIN SUCK at it. That is my natural being. That makes me feel unique for some reason.
But the funny part is once I think that way, I find myself relaxing in front of even the most attractive women.
You go girl!
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