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Originally Posted by RT Wolf  2. You seem to be assuming that the women that you'd get for being a player are the same as being a "nice guy". You probably can't go to the same places to find thoughtful women. Hanging out in bars and clubs may be great to for a player, but if you're looking for a meaningful relationship, try classes that you're interested in. |
Excellent point. You can also try Internet dating sites. Bookstores. Even the laundromat. Your chances of meeting a down-to-earth girl at a bar or club are low, and even if you do, they're going to be skeptical because they meet charming scumbags there all the time.