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Originally Posted by yintherapy  How do you know when you're taking on the role of martyr in your relationships? Anyone have experiences/suggestions for outgrowing it? |
if you don't want to be a martyr "someone who does self sacrifice for the other over one's own choice, needs or wants"
you have to be shelfish i mean selfish hehe.
that does not work in a relationship and will end up badly especially if you choose to go for a long term relationship.
50 =50 does not equal to one
it's 60= 60 ^^, put a little effort on both sides of the party.