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ssandra · 02-19-2009, 05:10 PM

I would say GO!!

Go see her. Tell her you´ve been an ass, a bad friend and not worthy or her friendship.

Tell her that you love her non the less, and although see has every right to kick you out and never see you again, you hope that see can forgive you and let you be her friend again.

Tell her that whatever happens, you will always be there for her, and you will always love her.

Then, leave it up to her to decide.

Don´t go via somebody else. Don´t take the easy way out of writing an email. If at all possible, go and see her.

If not, write a letter and ask your friend to deliver it, without any comment.

Respect her choice, whatever she decides.

But: if you have not been a friend in the past, be one now! Be there for her, because what she has gone through and is going through, she needs one.

02-19-2009, 05:10 PM	#3 (permalink)
ssandra Banned Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Mexico City Posts: 11,168	I would say GO!! Go see her. Tell her you´ve been an ass, a bad friend and not worthy or her friendship. Tell her that you love her non the less, and although see has every right to kick you out and never see you again, you hope that see can forgive you and let you be her friend again. Tell her that whatever happens, you will always be there for her, and you will always love her. Then, leave it up to her to decide. Don´t go via somebody else. Don´t take the easy way out of writing an email. If at all possible, go and see her. If not, write a letter and ask your friend to deliver it, without any comment. Respect her choice, whatever she decides. But: if you have not been a friend in the past, be one now! Be there for her, because what she has gone through and is going through, she needs one.