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Originally Posted by Susanna77  I don't want to fall out with them but I am fed up of feeling anxious before they come and then feeling completly drained afterwards. |
You probably just need to examine your reasons for feeling anxious. Be very conscious about your position right now. Imagine the worst possible scenenario and be very honest with yourself about the worst thing that could happen. Whatever you do, don't lower your consciousness and run away from what's scaring you. Try to reasons your way through the thoughts that scare you or drain you, instead of avoiding them.
If you really don't want to spend time with your in-laws, then maybe you could give them a really strong hint about it, or simply tell them what you're thinking.