You won't succeed at everything you do. Everyone experiences pain and some kind of heartbreak in their lives. You are not alone. Not everyone will love you or will approve of you. You have to be OK with this.
As painful as it is, you have to honor your feelings and allow them to just be. You are OK to feel this way, and there is no need to stress about getting it over as soon as possible.
The quickest solution in my book to get over a heartbreak, is to watch out for my needs. I take adequate rest, workout, eat well, play sports, hang out with friends, cry, express my feelings, etc. It takes you away from the victim role of being wronged, and gives you power to meet your basic needs.
Keep in mind that there are people out there who would love you just as you are, complete and whole, including the darkest and meanest sides of you. Take it for what it is, but this might be a sign of the Universe aligning something more congruent to what you truly desire.
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