Scott, my heart goes out to you but unfortunately I am just not very good with advice especially where relationships are concerned. So I will just say what I feel.
You are at a place in your life right now where you have sorted out your life, got rid of most bad habits and are now living healthier in general. Looks like you just have one bad habit to kick ( sorry to be blunt ) yes your lady friend.
You have a six year old son , imo this is where you should focus all your new found enthusiasm for life, he will benefit from you being healthy and not smoking pot etc so that is fantastic. You are doing a great job being dad and mum.
Just focus on what you have in your life that is wonderful right now and that is your relationship with your son, maybe tell the lady in question that she needs to go and sort herself out by herself as you now need to focus on your son, that might be what she needs.
Remember your son loves you unconditionally, what is more rewarding than that.
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