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Old 02-18-2009, 06:12 PM   #11 (permalink)
danas
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It just doesn't feel right.
There you said it. It doesnt feel right, so dont do it.


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it also means saying 'bye bye' to all my dreams and goals that I've planned for this upcoming year and it probably also means living to his will because he has a very dominant character.
The right relationship will not make you give up your dreams.

Sometimes not helping someone is the biggest help because then they can start taking responsibility for their situation. you helped him a lot already.

Of course you miss him, I think most people miss their exes until they fall in love again.
I think its pretty clear you have to let go of the "savior" position you have taken, and focus on your goals and dreams. Then someone right will come along
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