I know what you are feeling... it is not a good feeling.
When you are in a relationship with someone you need to feel wanted on a physical level as well as an emotional and metal level.
My situation is a little different, where my husband does see me as a sexual being but just has a way lower sexdrive then I do. It is not nice at all, but I know he loves me and sees me not as a sister or friend but lover and wife.
If he really doesnīt see you as a sexual being you should really have a long discussion with him on why. Maybe he sees you just as a friend, or maybe he is just an asexual person.
You need to think really carefully if that is the type of relationship you want to have.
Maybe you should be good friends instead and find another person to be your boyfriend...?
And if you really love him, think very very carefully if you can life your life without having sex again (or talk about opening up your relationship, where you can get sex elsewhere). Life without isnīt easy, especially if it is not because of your choice!
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