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Marsha Britton · 02-18-2009, 04:33 PM

My bf and I have been together for 2 years. We love each other and get along great. He told me 3 weeks ago he never thinks about having sex with me and it never was great-ouch! I am going through a divorce and I think he has a mental block that says..I am still a married woman. He was originally attracted to me because he was lonely. We are both very educated(PhD-him, BSN-me), active and attracted people. We have tons in common. This is the only problem-sex...I think therapy will help him to view me differently. He treats me as a friend and says he has never had a relationship with anyone like this before. This is too important for both of us to lose each other. Any suggestions?

02-18-2009, 04:33 PM	#1 (permalink)
Marsha Britton Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 1	my bf says he does not view me as a sexual being? My bf and I have been together for 2 years. We love each other and get along great. He told me 3 weeks ago he never thinks about having sex with me and it never was great-ouch! I am going through a divorce and I think he has a mental block that says..I am still a married woman. He was originally attracted to me because he was lonely. We are both very educated(PhD-him, BSN-me), active and attracted people. We have tons in common. This is the only problem-sex...I think therapy will help him to view me differently. He treats me as a friend and says he has never had a relationship with anyone like this before. This is too important for both of us to lose each other. Any suggestions?