Whoops, looks like I probably should have done some moderating in here, but it seems I'm too late.
StarFish, I see no need to repeat the good advice about talking to your friend face-to-face (and being ultra-careful about your relationships, sexual or not), but please don't be turned off of these forums by peoples' reactions to what they consider a less... mature topic. A quick glance around will tell you that folks aren't used to seeing Myspace drama here. To be honest, it should stay that way, but that doesn't make it okay to flame.
As for everyone else, please refrain from any more insults, and keep the "volume" to an acceptable level.