I'm having problems making friends in college. It wasn't always like this though! Im in my second semester of my freshman year, and let me tell you the first semester was great. I think my biggest mistake though was making one best girl friend and becoming attached at the hip. Around the first week of school I met this girl through random circumstances and we became best friends pretty quickly. It started when I went to her home for her birthday, and thats when I met her brother. Me and him started dating and I would go home with her on the weekends, I got attached to her and her family! We did everything together, went to many parties and new a ton of people. She was a little more outgoing then me, just a tad bit, but she always had the job of finding stuff for her to do. Well now that im in the second semester and she's left due to bad grades, im finding myself completely and utterly alone. I'm a very attractive, nice girl I think, I'm just as friendly as anyone else I think, but i still feel so alone. The only people that I know in school are guys, no girls, im finding it almost impossible to make friends that are girls, it seems like they have no desire to meet new people what should I do. I've never joined a club, and am not planning on it, and I do go to a lot a parties but its not like you can really meet other girls there who want to be your friend, half the time I wont even remember who the heck i met at a party. So ya any advice would be helpfull
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