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One thing I've noticed about guys into this stuff is that they're pretty secretive and defensive about the whole thing.
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I get that feeling sometimes too. I think most guys do it out of feeling of scarcity. They think if all guys know this, then there isn't going to be enough smart and good looking women left
I think this should not only NOT be secret, this should be taught and encouraged to be learned. In fact, this used to be a common knowledge back in the day. We, as men, are loosing the "manliness" because of society programming and media. We always hear (sometimes directly sometimes not) that it's NOT ok to be men.
Smart and educated women who meet a REAL man and then learn that he wasn't born like that, but had to do it the hard way and learn it, aren't going to be put off by that, but in fact, I think she'll be glad and proud of him.