Parents have called meeting
Thanks for your replies they did help me last night.
Mum has since phoned today and requested that I go over to their house tonight for a meeting to sort things out.
When I said that I didnt want a lecture but have an adult to adult conversation she said they she didnt phone for an argument! I tried to say that I wasnt arguing but making a point and she got very defensive and prickly as always.
I now feel sick as a dog at the thought of going 'into the lions den' tonight which is ridiculous as they are my parents. I know what it will be like later - they will tell me how they feel and their opinions and I will listen. When I then try to tell them my opinions and decisions they will ridicule and twist what I say to suit them and we will go round and round in circles and not sort anything out. How can you reason with someone who says ''we know we are right''?
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