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Old 02-16-2009, 08:41 AM   #2 (permalink)
tintin
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7 years---and youre not the same person anymore

dont be apologetic that youve grown.


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Still, I don’t want to hurt him. I know that a painless breakup is not going to be possible, but he doesn’t know what’s been going on in my head all this time. And he has no clue that I want to break up. How do you go from saying I love you 10 times a day to breaking up with someone?
so are you saying even tho you were feelin dissatisfied you still maintained the status quo? in other words lying to him?
and you dont want to lie now...either to him or yourself?

your choice to be honest is somehow..BAD?


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And I need that time for myself. I need to read, and study, and watch films in French and English (I’m Spanish), and think, maybe go for a walk alone or just have dinner with someone other than him..
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wanting to spend time with the most important person in your life ie -yourself =makes you guilty?
is it a wonder youre not enjoying youself..theres hardly any you there.wanting space to grow n develop shud be the 1st priority,no?
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