Thanks everyone who's giving me advice so far.
Colm, I think you've given me the best advice so far. Thank you. As for your questions about myspace, you can change your friends around. If you never have it will put your friends in order of who's been on myspace longer. I think it was a bad move, it seems to be causing a lot of stupid drama (like this) so much so I just took my top friends of my page so no one could view it.