Hi Rose
I agree with Angela. It might be better if you let both sides out in the open and have it out. Many times, when we dig deeper, we find self-limiting beliefs which were held long back and are no longer valid. In my case I have been very skinny for most of my life. Few years back I managed to put on some weight but and looked quite okay. However, it took me quite some time to change my earlier feelings about my body. Perhaps, affirmations could also help.