Thanks for the comments so far. It is comforting to know that perhaps it is not me in the wrong and that my parents are the selfish ones.
Since it happened there has only been little contact. I phoned them a week ago but they did not answer ( late on a sunday evening so I know they were at home) and have not bothered to return my call since. It does upset me and constantly play on my mind so I phoned them again this evening.
My dad answered and when I asked why they didnt return my call he said that they did not want to speak to me.
He asked why I had not been over to see them and thinks I am being childish. He said that my partner and I should have gone over and sat and discussed with them how we should get married not just told them over the phone that we were going abroad to get married. He then went onto say that they know they are in the right. I replied by saying they were being unrealistic (I am 36 and getting married for a second time) and he said fine thats it then and put the phone down.
By this I assume that they want no further contact with me.
Are they being unrealistic, unreasonable or is it me that is in the wrong for deciding how and where we get married and not consulting them first??
Please help again..........
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