Starfish,
I understand that you feel he's devalued you as a friend since you no longer offer sexual value to the relationship and you believed your relationship was more than just the occasional f*ck, yes?
Bebo is more popular in Ireland than MySpace, but it seems essentially the same. Most people who use it don't consciously chose their top friends, so bebo just randomises them. Could this be the case with MySpace as well?
You've also changed the rules of the relationship for you and your friend. He was used to your arrangement and you've changed things. He mightn't know how to handle it.
There was a thread a while back on letting go of friends and it was pointed out that if you change not everyone will stay on your path. Some will wander, some will join.
Love him, let him make his own decisions and walk his path, as he's letting you walk yours,
Colm
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