People who use a million words to say what they are trying to get at makes me tired. I know it is judgment on my part. I "get" where they are headed in the first few words. Then I feel my body and mind go thru this resistance. So as they are going around in circles, talking huge circles into smaller circles, I work on myself. I practice letting go of judgment. I can usually hear what they are not saying and concentrate on that.So when they finally take a breath I can ask a simple question.
Are they so insecure that they are talking theirselves into existence? Is it the Ego demanding center stage? Do we have the right to interrupt and ask a question to get them to the core issue or do we just let them ramble?