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Originally Posted by funchy  All are bad. It's not that he enjoyed sex with another person (he probably did before he met you), but that he (1) broke a promise (2) hid it from you (3) probably lied some more to cover it up. It's wrong on so many levels. He risks bringing home a STD to you, and he risks destroying your financial security if it gets the girl pregnant. He violated a trust you have in him, sometimes that trust never comes back. It brings into question how much he really loves you or perhaps if he understands what true love really is.
If he did it with someone he had emotional feelings for, don't be surprised if he doesn't fight to keep the relationship going. His heart may be elsewhere.
If it did it with someone he had no feelings or respect for, he may be able to cut her off easier but it does say something about him: he risked a good stable relationship for a few quickies? What kind of person is this? |
the love of my life. =/ and the girl or girls he messed with he has feelings for. and even though now he says he only wants me how can i feel that is true? How do i know that he isn't in denial. and thus lieing to me and himself.
He once said to me okay, "that he could never just casually **** someone., he has to have feelings and thoughts for. intimacy." But then many times before that he would make comments like "i am guy, i want what all guys want, to spread my seed into every girl". I was like ROFL. " You do not want to be inside every girl, just the ones you find attractive and have feelings for". I don;t know what he feels, I doubt it all. I feel I love him. ANd sometimes I am even in doubt. because I dont even know who i am.
I guess i dont have faith. i dont believe.
maybe one day i will when it is too late.