Originally Posted by Trey Baird
This is an interesting question that can tell you a lot about how your brain works.
It's funny, because to me, the reason is irrelevant. I don't care why she does it, if it happens. If it's for love, that offends me, but if it's for fun, it makes it to where I can't respect her because she's a slave to her urges. Both reasons make me sick.
Sorry to give you a copout answer.
It is obscene to me that people cheat. I don't like it and having to have been through the experiecnce of the one that I love unconditionally, the first time i have ever been in love. I love him. I just can't wrap my head around it. It seems that peoplen just don't think they are just selfish. Want to experiment with others? LEAVE ME FIRST! Then come back when you are done, IF you are done. Just don't bring back any sexual souvenirs
Do not want an STD.
Why couldn't he call me up and say sweety, I love you, I want to be with you, but I wanna cheat right now. I have thing for this other girl, and I want to try out with her. So i gotta leave okay. I would be like hurt, but I would respect that he would leave me and not hurt me by doing something I dont approve of behind my back and lie to me.
It is sad and diconcerting to me that someone I love and claims to love me would still want others and not want to leave me. I am not the most attractive. I don't even seen good in me or beauty. Friends, family and my lover see it. I do not have a reason to believe in myself.
But it's like they get to the moment where they have this opportunity to do whatever and then they don;t think oh how is this going to affect love when she/he finds out. You think that would stop them. No. I guess it is only worth it if you can hurt the one who loves you.
No pain no gain right?
I must love pain. =( And I say I would never do that to anyone. I would never cheat yada yada. But now I feel it could, anything is possible. I am not above anyone. I am not above anything. I could worse. I could better. Just the right opportunity and my decision BOOM!
And at least I wouldn;t hide it. BECAUSE CAN HANDLE THE TRUTH UNLIKE SOME PEOPLE! Like my lover and family and some friends that have lied to me in the past.
I don't have to respond in the way" like oh you told me the truth
? Oh everything is okay now." NO. But I will be like thankful and let you know what I feel pertaining to the subject. Truth hurts. Life is tough GET A HELMET!
I am human I have my right to react to things. If I never heard anything about cheating and didn;t know of its consequences, maybe it wouldn't have hurt me when I found out. Maybe I wouldnt care. Maybe I care too much. =(
But i realize i can be him, I can be anybody.
And the one ♥♥♥♥♥ won't face me. She doesn;t feel bad. NO JUSTICE!!!!
she has no clue of pain, nothing bad has happened to her. SHE DOESN"T appreciate anything good. And it is little things like that, that make me wonder IF I EVEN DO!
What makes me so god dam pure that I wouldn';t do that?
Well i have experience that stacks up on my back that tells me I did so many things that I didnt approve of, that I put my nose up at. ANd i did them anyway. Whether or not I wads manipulated or pressured. I still made the final decison. IT WAS ME! So i do things for experience to understand to know. and so i want to know what others feel when it pertains to me. HE has his first love cheat on him several times and yet he wanted anyway. But she was like no, forget it. Don't want cha anymore.
So he did the same **** because why he wanted to and could and wanted to understand how it felt to cheat and make someone you love hurt the one that love you hurt.
Fine!!!!! live for experience, its the best way.
But oooh I think I acutally hate someone....
I didn;t even think that was possible for me !!!! I HATE THAT ♥♥♥♥♥ not as much as I hate the other girl that was messing with him from a distance via phone and net. But this one UGHGHGHGHGH!
I can see very bad things happening to her to me to everyone who witnesses it. I could **** my whole life because of how I have been affected.