in order to stop doubting yourself, you must first realize that you are the only one judging yourself.
the reason why we are afraid to do what we want is not because of what others will think of us, but because of what we will think of ourselves if we do it! we project these beliefs onto others and believe that they will think we are stupid, or inconfident, etc, when really who is the one creating these thoughts in the first place? thats right, we are. so by realising that no one judges us, but ourselves, we can consciously choose not to judge ourselves, and thereby feel free to be do and have anything we want.
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