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Originally Posted by Realization Seeker  ...I don't ask whether it is POSSIBLE OR NOT... OR RIGHT OR WRONG...
This is my universe... I ask HOW (CAN I DO THAT)?  |
Realization, what you don't seem to be realizing (even though you may be seeking that realization) is that you are asking us a question that sounds like: "How can I get a person to do what I want them to do, just because I want them to do it?" In other words, you are asking us how you can manipulate another human being without regard for a win/win situation.
What I don't hear you saying is: How could I be the sort of person that would be a great vibrational match for my ex-love? What could I be generating that would be welcoming and beneficial to that person, and what could I let go of that didn't or doesn't work well?
Instead, everything you've said so far in this matter is about what YOU want and what YOU intend to *get* or *have* of or from this person. That vibration doesn't feel like warm arms, or respectful conservatorship, or generosity. It doesn't feel inviting to me; it feels repulsive.
One way that repellant vibe shows up is in your canned responses and apparent "deafness" to questions and statements in this thread -- it's as if you are deleting anything that comes your way that doesn't match what your existing experience. In your love life, that vibration is one that GUARANTEES that you will continue to keep receiving what you have always received -- that is, the ex-love is an ex-love. In other words, you are ALREADY NOW manifesting what you are in vibration for: you said it yourself: you want an ex-love. You've got an ex-love.
If that's not really what you want, then figure out what it is that you DO want, and make an adjustment. My feeling is that you are very resistant to making an internal adjustment, and that you prefer that others do the adjusting. So my advice to you as to the mood or vibration that would make a difference here? Surrender and Acceptance. Let something in.