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Originally Posted by Realization Seeker  So there is no obsession inside; I only "peacefully" want the Right Person (my ex-love  )
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If you've 'changed' then you think the relationship reunited will be better. So the right person (apparently) who you drove away, when reunited with the 'changed' you, will see the change and all will be well?
Sounds like your ego wants to take another crack at it
If you are now the space for love, then that space will be filled, going back to a relationship that was based on egoic self concern may work, but the ego is a mighty strong factor and I wouldn't be surprised if it didn't work again.
If your ego ruled supreme in that relationship and now you have your ego aligned with peace and acceptnce, I'd suspect the reunited relationship dynamic would be so different, you would notice a massive change and see it as not being the perfect relationship you thought it could truly become.
I'm no expert, but if you are now the space for love, then see if you can fill that space with another, rather than one with such a strong personal history.
Just my 10 cents
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