Well I guess you're upset Starfish because you weren't given a choice. You were taken out of the top friends without having a say, and this makes you frustrated, maybe even hurting your pride.
That's life. We have to learn to deal with such things because they will happen again, though in different forms and fashion. But they will, and learning how to handle one's own emotions and state of mind will be very helpful.
Guess I've sidetracked. Oops