Do you think she might find out? How would that go down if she hears it from someone else compared to from you? Keeping someone in the dark about mistakes is a hard path that could strain the relationship with a secret stress that might cause a demise anyway because of that stress. And also not telling lets one think one can get away with things - may actually reinforce a part of you that will think what you did was OK and behaviourly more apt to repeat it.
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