Oh come on Erik and Dating,
He screwed up because of drink, not becuase he is a nasty person. He doesn't need to risk putting himself through a second round of hell if she gets rid of him. And of course herself.
If he had started this email telling us he was sober, then I would have given him the same answer as you, because he would have done it out of pure badness, not stupidity as in this instance.
Have you ever done anything stupid, not bad, stupid? You don't need to tell us the details, just yes or no.
Starting with me.....YES, more times than I can remember!!
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