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Old 01-09-2007, 12:25 PM   #4 (permalink)
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How many times and from how many people can you hear: "Don't tell her"????

I guess that's not the answer you want to hear but it is the best advice by far you're going to get. So keep your mouth shut.

And you. Why torture yourself with guilt? It seems like you've already come to the realization within yourself that you won't do that again. So, keep that knowing and move on, live here, now, and stop recreating the past over and over again. If you're going top keep drumming it up you might as well start hitting yourself with a baseball bat.

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Originally Posted by boston123 View Post
I have been afraid of losing this girl ever since we started dating. Now that I did this... I could or will jeopordize my relationship that I cherish so much!!
This is what you really need to work on my friend. You've dated her for two years, why the fear of losing her? Are you not good enough? In your eyes could she do better? Where is your unease?
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