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Originally Posted by Erin Pavlina  Dan, it sounds to me like you need to work on acceptance.
When I see people who are making choices that I consider poor, I try not to judge because what if their poor decisions are actually an improvement for how they used to be? Then instead of being frustrated, I feel encouraged that they are growing.
Even if that's not the case (perhaps they are taking a step backward in your opinion) I just accept that not everyone is at the same level as me, just as I know there are lots of people at higher levels of consciousness than me. I wouldn't want them to feel angry at my level so I can't in good conscience feel angry when someone else is making poor choices.
Know what I mean? |
That's the crux of the issue: Is it better to leave someone to their own devices or is it better to "challenge them incessantly" until something gives?
I personally don't mind being challenged, so I feel OK projecting it onto others. =)