Well, if you do want to play the power game: tell him to give up something he cares about and you'll give up the cat. Then tell him that if he's not willing to make that sacrifice, then he doesn't really want to get rid of the cat because he's not willing to make that sacrifice. This way you can add some pressure on him to come to terms with it. If you do go down this route, well, good luck in your relationship.
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