The cat is probably seeing/sensing the insecurities in the boyfriend. If the cat's ok when you're in the room & scratches him when you're not, it might be because of a change in your boyfriend's mood/vibration, not your cat's. He's probably getting even more insecure when he's alone with the cat: "Omg, stay calm...Stay calm. I won't hurt you, Omg Omg," etc. And the cat goes, "GGGRRNNNNAAAUUU!" or "HiiiiSSS," because these lower vibrations/thoughts are telling it that something's up.
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