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Originally Posted by yintherapy  I'd be willing to give up the cat if I find a good home for her because SHE is distressed by HIS presence. I feel bad for her when he's around because she's miserable and terrified, and just not her sweet, happy self. |
If the cat I live with was miserable and terrified and just not her sweet, happy self when a guy is around, I'd show the guy the door. I believe it is my responsibility to make sure she's fine, and this includes removing stressful influences from her environment as much as possible. Throwing her out instead would seem very backwards to me. But that's just me of course, I would choose the cat over any guy.