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Originally Posted by Angela 
If you give in to this demand that you sacrifice something you love so the he is saved from the inconvenience of learning how to deal with it, you are 100% responsible for setting up this pattern in your future life together -- because that's what it will be. If there's an issue in the relationship, YOU will be the one who will be required to solve the problem, and you must sacrifice your own desires and needs to his. And do you know why? Because by giving this cat away, you are creating an unwritten contract agreeing to it.
YOU, my dear, are the cat. Do not give yourself away, I implore you.
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You're right. Thanks so much.