It would really help me to discuss this more, like to get some feedback and insights as to why I should do this or that.
For example - If I was dating a guy whose dog hated me in particular, and growled whenever I came in the room, that would bother me tremendously. I don't think I would want to live like that, and I wouldn't feel wrong in asking someone to consider finding a better situation for the dog, one where the dog doesn't feel threatened by me every day.
So is it his request that's wrong, or the way he's going about it?
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