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When he tries to pet her or hold her, she tolerates it when I'm in the room, and when I leave the room she hisses, scratches, or bites him, sometimes even if he's just sitting next to her watching TV.
She gets along with everyone else, including kids and other cats. It's just him that rubs her the wrong way, so it's possible that she could easily find another home where she can be happy, and not be reminded of whatever is making her hate him.
He loves cats. He has two. My other cat loves him. This is the first cat that's ever disliked him. He tried catnip, feeding her exclusively, talking like me, petting her the way I do, and even meditated on it.
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