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soulbreaker · 02-03-2009, 02:35 AM

So I've realized just recently that my biggest problem is that I feel inferior towards most of my friends, because they have been such big successes, and I have been the one behind. Although, I have learned so much from living with them and being around them, I can't take the negativity I put on myself anymore from being around them.

I know it takes 2 people to make any kind of relationship work, and I think they know we don't have a strong friendship too, but we continue to hang out and gossip behind the other's back, and if you gossip about your friends in a negative way, i think it's time to end the friendship.

I told them that I feel inferior being around them, and told them to give me a week or so, but I'm not sure what to do after this week is up tho...I think I might just tell them I need time off from them to become a more solid person, but is this the right thing to do? what a messy situation.

02-03-2009, 02:35 AM	#4 (permalink)
soulbreaker Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 20	Update So I've realized just recently that my biggest problem is that I feel inferior towards most of my friends, because they have been such big successes, and I have been the one behind. Although, I have learned so much from living with them and being around them, I can't take the negativity I put on myself anymore from being around them. I know it takes 2 people to make any kind of relationship work, and I think they know we don't have a strong friendship too, but we continue to hang out and gossip behind the other's back, and if you gossip about your friends in a negative way, i think it's time to end the friendship. I told them that I feel inferior being around them, and told them to give me a week or so, but I'm not sure what to do after this week is up tho...I think I might just tell them I need time off from them to become a more solid person, but is this the right thing to do? what a messy situation.